"It`s better to be a good person than a famous person. Going with the flow is soothing, but risky. It`s better to be lonely than to be with inferiour people. The point is to know where you stop and the world begins. You should limit the number of times you act against your nature, like sleeping with people you hate. It`s interesting to test your capabilities for a while, but too much will cause damage. Anyway: having two or three people in love with you is like money in the bank. If you simply live, there is nothing to worry about. If you have many desires, your life can be even interesting. Wishing things away is not effective. Low expectations are a good protection."